Thursday, May 6, 2010

FiRST STEP...

The first steps in and out of a relationship are the hardest.

On one side of the perspective, beginning, how do we know what the other is thinking? Are we ever sure of the connection between us? Is love supposed to be this impossible? What if’s and what not’s…..neverending questions, we just need to go for it, expose yourself for what you really are. The stripping of your most vulnerable faults and flaws for him/her to see and examine. True love is never about the differences it is about the beginning of a new human being. Two people becoming one and sharing their whole lives with each other. Do you think you can take the first jump?

The opposite goes for the ending of a relationship, after you have given everything for this person, you have began to realize that your similarities are not abundant, you fight and do not seem to heal yourselves easily, but there is always a return. One of the two always comes back, the one person takes a stand and lays the line that the differences should not override the working relationship. The clashing opinions should not run the couple. What happened though, the relationship is over and you have to finally give up everything. The two victims forget about each other and find new people to investigate and eventually, maybe they will find the light at the end of the tunnel, together.

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